Art for the Few

"If someone calls you a slut, there’s nothing you can say to refute the claim because it never had..."

Tue, 21 Jun 2011 23:52:52 -0700

““If someone calls you a slut, there’s nothing you can say to refute the claim because it never had any cognitive content anyway. Even virginity is not a defense against alleged sluttiness. Virgins can be sluts if they dress the wrong way, walk the wrong way, or even instill the wrong thoughts in other people. Some people will convict you of sluttitude because your body is the wrong shape, or the right shape. What determines sluttiness? Is it number of partners, or the number of sex acts, or the kind of sex, or whether you enjoy it, or what other people infer about your self-esteem based on what they assume about your sex life? It’s all of the above, or none of the above. Either way, you lose. Maybe it has nothing to do with you at all. Maybe it’s because your accuser is racist or classist and your “sluttiness” is built into some stereotype that was clanking around in their head before they ever met you. If you try to argue that you’re not a slut, you’re implicitly buying into the idea that there are sluts out there. If there’s some criterion that will set you free, that standard will indict someone else—someone with a higher “number,” or shorter skirt, or a later curfew. So we get bogged down in slut/non-slut border skirmishes over a line nobody should have tried to draw in the first place, and we all lose. The only “refutation” is to laugh in your accuser’s face and get on with your life, however you choose to live it. That’s what Slut Walk is about.””

- Sluts Like Me - Jezebel (via grrrlvirus)There’s not much to be said to refute the claim. but that’s the least of the issue. The person making the claim is either sexually inexperinced, or inadequate. Possibly wishing to be a slut themselves… let’s say I know frustration, but the word is best used amongst friends. Hopefully very close ones.

Except for the neccesary violence.

Tue, 21 Jun 2011 23:40:00 -0700

Except for the neccesary violence.

disgustinghuman: a life left half behind, though no longer...

Tue, 21 Jun 2011 23:37:54 -0700

disgustinghuman:

a life left half behind, though no longer blind i can’t yet see. i’m not the boy that i once was, but i’m not the man i’ll be.

I ride all the time, but I never see this. Maybe I wish my ass...

Tue, 21 Jun 2011 23:25:26 -0700

I ride all the time, but I never see this. Maybe I wish my ass was more like this, and I could carry it around with me.

childhood.

Tue, 21 Jun 2011 23:23:30 -0700

childhood.

Once I was in love with this girl with a Camaro. It didn’t last but it was sweet for a while.

Fri, 27 May 2011 08:00:18 -0700

Once I was in love with this girl with a Camaro. It didn’t last but it was sweet for a while.

2headedsnake: ttp-::narrow-house.blogspot.com chris mason

Fri, 27 May 2011 07:56:39 -0700

2headedsnake:

ttp-::narrow-house.blogspot.com

chris mason

"It’s because I fell in love. And I didn’t mean to."

Fri, 27 May 2011 07:55:50 -0700

“It’s because I fell in love. And I didn’t mean to.”

- me (via eileenede)

I’m not positive, but there may be something fundamentally wrong with you when you find...

Fri, 27 May 2011 07:50:02 -0700

I’m not positive, but there may be something fundamentally wrong with you when you find yourself eating artichoke hearts dipped in Reser’s clam sauce at 7:30 on Friday morning.

2headedsnake: nohaycomolodeuno.blogspot.com mark bryan

Wed, 25 May 2011 15:43:20 -0700

2headedsnake:

nohaycomolodeuno.blogspot.com

mark bryan

Wow, look at the marble balanced at the apex of the heel. Fish...

Tue, 24 May 2011 02:15:28 -0700

Wow, look at the marble balanced at the apex of the heel. Fish scales. Pierced. But why ruin the effect with a sock Grandma made?

The Force that Makes Us Beautiful also Beats Us to Death

Tue, 24 May 2011 01:15:05 -0700

The Force that Makes Us Beautiful also Beats Us to Death

Someone get me a job at a carwash!

Tue, 24 May 2011 01:12:00 -0700

Someone get me a job at a carwash!

Our Last Transmission was barely a Whisper

Tue, 24 May 2011 01:04:05 -0700

Our Last Transmission was barely a Whisper

Old Camera by Todd McLellan

Sat, 07 May 2011 14:07:16 -0700

Old Camera by Todd McLellan

Photo

Sat, 07 May 2011 14:01:53 -0700

Photo

Sat, 07 May 2011 13:59:30 -0700

kimjongillookingatthings: looking at wine

Sat, 07 May 2011 13:57:45 -0700

kimjongillookingatthings:

looking at wine

kimjongillookingatthings: looking at a monitor this blog is...

Sat, 07 May 2011 13:56:32 -0700

kimjongillookingatthings:

looking at a monitor

this blog is fuckin hilarious…

words are dumb sometimes, I’ll shut up.

Fri, 06 May 2011 01:27:34 -0700

words are dumb sometimes, I’ll shut up.